How to Give Great Head!

Today’s Thought

Tessa — Sun, 23 Oct 2011 21:27:40 +0000

“It’s easy to take your clothes off and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them know your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hope, dreams…that is being naked.” – Unknown

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4 Questions for Svetlana Ivanoa

Tessa — Sat, 09 Apr 2011 21:02:28 +0000

I originally published this article in my newsletter about a year ago, but I’ve decided to make it available to all of you today. It is packed with wonderful tips about how to give a blow job. Enjoy!

4 Questions for Svetlana Ivanoa

Svetlana Ivanoa is the owner of the blog Sex Secrets, and an expert in oral sex, as you’ll see by her answers below. She’s decided to share some of her best tips with us today:

BJG: Ok, I’m not going to ask why you decided to become a sex blogger – it’s well said on your website. But I do wonder what’s on your list of things you refuse to do — sexually?

SI: Lots of things, actually, if you start going down a list of sexual fetishes, but one thing I don’t do seems to surprise people. Lesbianism is trendy these day, but I don’t go (down) there. I can appreciate female beauty, but women don’t turn me on sexually.

BJG: Which do you like best- giving oral sex or receiving it?

SI: When done well, receiving oral sex is heaven, but I like giving it, too. In fact, I’ve had orgasms just from performing fellatio.

BJG: Can you share some great fellatio techniques with us?

SI:Your man thinks just having his penis in your mouth is pretty cool, but these three tricks might get some moans and groans from him even if he’s the strong, silent type.

1) Blowing Hot and Cold. Go down on the penis shaft as far as you can with your lips firmly wrapped around it. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air, let your open mouth travel up to the penis’s head. Your upstroke motion should end at the head of his penis just as your lungs fill with air. Then, with your mouth still open, let out the air in your lungs slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the shaft. This technique cools the penis on the upstroke and warms the penis with your hot breath on the down stroke.

2) The Lollipop Lick. With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front, lift his erect penis to reveal his testicles. With your tongue, find the underside of his testicles. Then, while resting them on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. You can also use your hands in this technique if necessary. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

3) The Quickie. There are times when you will want to get your man off in a hurry because you are short on time, such as a lunch break visit to the office. It is fairly easy to give him an orgasm by simply sucking on the most sensitive parts of his penis. Place your lips around your partner’s head and twirl your lips and your tongue around the corona and frenulum. Keep your mouth wet and gently continue your movements until he orgasms. This will not take long, and no other fellatio techniques or hand movements are required though you can incorporate them if you would like to. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he ejaculates.

BJG: What about Deep Throat? What’s your best deep throating technique?

SI: When you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance, and you will need to give a little extra push to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further. Then pull your tongue back into your mouth, pulling the penis along with it. Eventually, you’ll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat. Roll your eyes upwards to prevent the tear ducts from overreacting.

You can visit Svetlana’s site, Sex Secrets, by clicking here.

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Video: How To Give A Better Blowjob

Tessa — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 14:26:19 +0000

Follow sex experts Dan and Jennifer as they explain how to make give your guy great head.

It’s no secret that guys love getting a blowjob. Getting head is probably one of your guy’s favorite ways to be pleasured sexually, so you should definitely learn how to give great head if you don’t already know how. And chances are, even if you’re a blowjob pro, you could use a few tips to spice up your routine. Giving a guy head sounds simple, but there are a lot of things that girls miss when they’re going down on their guy. Here are some simple tips to help you give a better blowjob.

read the rest and see the video here.

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I’m baaaack!

Tessa — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 16:40:04 +0000

Yes, I know, I’ve been quiet a loooong time, but it’s now over. I’m so happy to be back! = )

And since I feel guilty about this long absence, I’ve decided to give you guys a present. You can download my ebook Blow Job 101, totally free – and no opt-in required.

This was only available to the subscribers of my newsletter, but I’m offering it for free for everyone – as a new year gift.

You can download the book here.

Enjoy !!!

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Mother’s Day: Website honors the sensual imperfections of the childbirth body

Tessa — Sun, 09 May 2010 02:20:11 +0000

Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, yet rarely do we acknowledge the loveliness of imperfection.That is why, with Mother’s Day around the corner, Modern Love wants to pay homage to the changing shape of the female form, when nature, and not a doctor (as is so often the case), brings about those reminders of a life well lived.

Inevitably, when a woman gives birth, her body changes. Some of those transformations are as subtle as the texture of her hair (many women report that theirs gets curlier or straighter) and others are quite dramatic (breasts have been known to change addresses, moving permanently south regardless of the season). Many accept their new bodies with delight and pride, but others feel shame at the loss of what they perceive was their sexier selves.

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Spicing up things with Oral Sex Dice

Tessa — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 01:08:48 +0000

Well, while more and more women are getting comfortable with the idea of giving head, many are still too stressed out about it. They get so caught up into trying to bring him to climax that they forget to relax and enjoy it all. If you’re one of them and are looking for a way to relax and induce the fun, you should try using an oral sex dice game.

Why do I recommend oral sex dice? Because they’re really fun, affordable, and they invite intimacy as well as passion. They cost less than 5 bucks and are guaranteed to turn any blowjob into a fun game for two. Playing games will take you off the ‘performing’ mode and more into the ‘enjoying’ mode – which you should always be in when you’re having sex. And those dice are just the right ice-breaker. Whether it’s to kiss, nibble, blow, or hum, you won’t go out of instructions. And if don’t forget to come up with your own ideas too. Oh, and for some real fun, get two sets of dice – one for him and one for you. You’ll give ( and get) a wonderful oral sex session.

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Happy Easter

Tessa — Sun, 04 Apr 2010 20:14:28 +0000

Hope you have a wonderful Easter, with your loved ones. May you be filled with many Blessings from the one above !

Tessa

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Learning how to Deep Throat — Video

Tessa — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 13:59:37 +0000

Great video by Betty Dodson in which she answers the question: How Can I Learn to Deep Throat? Learn how to release tension in your belly in order to control your gag reflex, how to best position your tongue, and more….

Photo from The Alexa Collection

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Safer Sex: test your Condom Knowledge

Tessa — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 11:13:10 +0000

In this second post in the safer sex series, I'm inviting you to test what you know about condoms. Unless you're in a committed relationship with a partner who you're sure about, I'm sure you've been using the rubber for a good while. But do you know everything you should about it? Do you have enough knowledge to buy the right type of condom? Do you even know how many different ones are there?

So, to make sure you're making the right choices when it comes to condoms, go ahead and take the following test. And feel free to share your results with us !

You can find the test here.

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In favor of fellatio

Tessa — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 02:33:14 +0000

I looove this funny ( and wonderful) article below by sex columnist Dorothy Black. My favorite paragraph? The last one:

"Truth is, we should all be getting down a little more regularly with a little more zeal. More head means happier people; happier people mean a better world for all. It’s practically your civil duty. "

Here is an excerpt of the article, named "In favour of fellatio":

There’s this really awesome (shallow and patronising) joke I absolutely love. It’s one of the few I remember, probably because I regard it as near fact. It goes like this:

Question: Why are men similar to floor tiles?

Answer: If you lay them properly once you can walk over them for the rest of your life.

Ha ha ha.

Seriously though. Near fact. If you’re one of those women who have grown up believing that the way to a man’s heart is through his tummy, I’m going to hazard a guess that you’re also one of those women who have never experienced the power of giving great head.

See, in my experience, while the way to a man’s heart might be through a whole lot of lovely things like feelings and cookies, the way is made substantially shorter via regular, mind-blowing blow jobs.

‘Cos men are simple folk that way. (Actually, so are women; give your partner some good, good loving and make her feel like a goddess and she’s yours 100%.)

I was a late bloomer to the whole sex thing and my first bj at the age of 17 was a miserable attempt forced on me by a nasty little man with a vivid imagination of mutual attraction. It should’ve been enough to put me off the whole thing entirely.

But I’m too curious to let sleeping peens lie.

So, after a few enlightening experiences of gross (no cheese, please), WTF?! (not so much on you shoving my face repeatedly into your crotch), lock-jaw (good bj does not equal piston-heading) and #FAIL (there is no shame in no orgasm), I finally got the hang of head. more

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