I originally published this article in my newsletter about a year ago, but I’ve decided to make it available to all of you today. It is packed with wonderful tips about how to give a blow job. Enjoy!

4 Questions for Svetlana Ivanoa

Svetlana Ivanoa is the owner of the blog Sex Secrets, and an expert in oral sex, as you’ll see by her answers below. She’s decided to share some of her best tips with us today:

BJG: Ok, I’m not going to ask why you decided to become a sex blogger – it’s well said on your website. But I do wonder what’s on your list of things you refuse to do — sexually?

SI: Lots of things, actually, if you start going down a list of sexual fetishes, but one thing I don’t do seems to surprise people. Lesbianism is trendy these day, but I don’t go (down) there. I can appreciate female beauty, but women don’t turn me on sexually.

BJG: Which do you like best- giving oral sex or receiving it?

SI: When done well, receiving oral sex is heaven, but I like giving it, too. In fact, I’ve had orgasms just from performing fellatio.

BJG: Can you share some great fellatio techniques with us?

SI:Your man thinks just having his penis in your mouth is pretty cool, but these three tricks might get some moans and groans from him even if he’s the strong, silent type.

1) Blowing Hot and Cold. Go down on the penis shaft as far as you can with your lips firmly wrapped around it. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air, let your open mouth travel up to the penis’s head. Your upstroke motion should end at the head of his penis just as your lungs fill with air. Then, with your mouth still open, let out the air in your lungs slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the shaft. This technique cools the penis on the upstroke and warms the penis with your hot breath on the down stroke.

2) The Lollipop Lick. With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front, lift his erect penis to reveal his testicles. With your tongue, find the underside of his testicles. Then, while resting them on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. You can also use your hands in this technique if necessary. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

3) The Quickie. There are times when you will want to get your man off in a hurry because you are short on time, such as a lunch break visit to the office. It is fairly easy to give him an orgasm by simply sucking on the most sensitive parts of his penis. Place your lips around your partner’s head and twirl your lips and your tongue around the corona and frenulum. Keep your mouth wet and gently continue your movements until he orgasms. This will not take long, and no other fellatio techniques or hand movements are required though you can incorporate them if you would like to. One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he ejaculates.

BJG: What about Deep Throat? What’s your best deep throating technique?

SI: When you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance, and you will need to give a little extra push to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further. Then pull your tongue back into your mouth, pulling the penis along with it. Eventually, you’ll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat. Roll your eyes upwards to prevent the tear ducts from overreacting.

You can visit Svetlana’s site, Sex Secrets, by clicking here.