It’s obvious knowing how to give great head is a skill that requires lots of practice. Your first time might not be the best, but if you keep trying – like we all do – you’ll soon become an expert.

While there is no definite method about how to give great head, I’ve come up with an approach for the clueless gals, or the ones wanting to try a different technique.  As you gain experience, you can develop your own routine.

A note about lube here: keep in mind if you want to learn how to give great head is, lube has to become your friend. A great hand job is next to impossible without lubricant.

So ok, the moment has arrived. What the heck are you supposed to do?

1-     Start by using your hands and gently give him a nice balls and penis massage. Wrap your lubricated hands around the base of his shaft and move hem up and down along his penis. Adjust the pressure to his liking, to get him fully erect and aroused.

2-     Then tease his penis by kissing it, blowing on top of it, or licking his frenulum. Do whatever you feel comfortable with. Also let your tongue explore his balls and his perineum. A guy’s balls are extremely sensitive, so lick, stroke, massage, or suck as you please. All this action will turn him on more.

3-     Lick, lick, lick. Unsure about how to proceed? Try the ice-cream lick: a long, slow lick with the flat tongue from bottom to top, as if you were licking ice-cream. Or the lollipop lick:  lick all the way from the bottom to the top, making a swirl motion the way you do when licking a candy. Lick the length of his shaft on one side, and then the other side. Remember to look at him in the eyes (if your position allows), and let him know you’re enjoying it too

4 When you’re ready to take his penis inside, remember the golden rule:  keep your teeth tucked in. It’s easily done by covering them with your lips. You must not forget this if you really want to learn how to give great head.  Teeth can cause irritation, cuts, and scratches to the skin.

If you’re able to deep throat, then indulge. If not, you can still take it in as far as you can.  If you get a gag reflex, simply pull back and use your hands to rest your mouth a bit.

5-     Repeat the steps above as much as you want. Try different amounts of speed and pressure, and ask him how he feels. Getting feedback is important in learning how to give great head. Pick the technique that works best for you both, and stick to it for a while. It will facilitate his orgasm.

6-     If you don’t like to swallow and are not using a condom (which is highly recommended unless you really trust your partner), you need to watch when he’s about to come.  When you feel the moment arriving, just use your hands instead of your mouth.

7-     And, last but not least, the little-known secret about how to give great head: tease the penis for a minute or two after he had ejaculated. The penis is then much more sensitive, and some guys do like the motion to go on a bit more. But then again, it will depend on your partner’s preferences.

Now it’s up to you to become a fellatio goddess!